| The other day I found this post in the archives. I think it is very well written and should be posted again. Thank you Sheila! Best wishes to everybody, Brigitte & Kahlu Sheila, VA, sheila@rileynet.com *We spend so much time and energy focusing on our beloved canines with AIHA, I thought I would throw out some survival tips for their human family* AIHA is a marathon, not a sprint, so pace yourself physically -- eat properly, exercise, try to get enough sleep. AIHA is an emotional rollercoaster complete with hopeful highs and crushing lows -- seek support, acknowledge and talk about your feelings. AIHA is random and unfair, it can test your spirit and faith -- now is the time to lean on your beliefs, to find strength and peace in them. AIHA is life altering, but it is only one part of your dogs life -- it doesn't take away 'who' your dog was/is or erase the 'before' time and memories, try to call on thoses positives and allow that joy to bolster and fill your heart. AIHA requires us to be an advocate for our dogs, with almost no warning or prior training we must become a doctor, scientist, researcher, financier, counselor, and cheerleader. Even the most confident person can begin to question past choices and actions, and that can shake your confidence badly. Do not give into fear and doubt, separate facts from feelings and try to stay focused on the future. ~*~*~*~*~ Bless each of you for being such a wonderful friend to your dog, it takes such a loving strong person to fight this disease. We each talk about how special our furbabies are, and they are, but I think their 'owners' are just as special. I believe that our dogs know just what we are giving and doing, and I think that that means more to them than whatever the outcome of this evil disease may be. Your dog thinks you are the greatest, so please take care of YOU today!! ~Sheila, lucky mom to Dakota, Nuggett, Harley and Radar (my current gang) |
| Brigitte BC Canada |
| Thanks so much for finding that gem and reposting it, timeless words and very true and comforting. Thanks so much to the original poster Sheila, and to Brigitte for dusting it off to share again,. melissa and tiggs |
| melissa slc |
| Thanks Brigitte and Shiela. That really is priceless advise. I think sometimes we need a reminder to, or should I say, FOR ourselves. I'm starting to realize the importance in the owner feeling and showing daily happiness. Dogs pick up on our emotions and I think that a happier owner will make the dog more happy. I notice that some weeks are more stressfull than others and I can notice Tessy's attitude adjust to this. Take care or the furkids out there.....AND YOURSELF. Hugs from, Johnny & Tessy |
| Johnny |
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